Posted on September 12, 2021September 12, 2021“a lot of us have a difficult time posting into pastor that yet another boyfriend.” “a lot of us have a difficult time posting into pastor that yet another boyfriend.” A man pastor, Cooper says, is the “alpha men” for many black girls. Over-reverence for its pastor – or any spiritual number even – encourages boundaries for any black husband, she claims, since he seems like they must be competitive for the number 1 place in a black woman’s cardiovascular system. Continue reading ““a lot of us have a difficult time posting into pastor that yet another boyfriend.””
